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    Gender · Lens 08
    Deep Research Report · Available

    Definitions of Success

    Gen Z men and Gen Z women define a successful life with almost inverted priorities — a divergence that will reshape family formation, careers, and consumption.
    Deep Research Report · 27 min read

    How Women and Men Define, Pursue, and Measure a Life Well Lived

    Agency vs. communion, the trifecta, and the institutional calibration problem. The McKinsey ambition gap that disappears with equal support, the 40-point Gen Z fracture line on what a meaningful life looks like, and the generational pivot toward the multidimensional success model women have been operating with for decades.

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    Women
    • • Gen Z women rank 'emotional stability' #1 as a marker of success (39%).
    • • 'Having children' ranks #12 for Gen Z women (6%).
    • • Career autonomy and financial independence rank in the top three for Gen Z women.
    • • Gen Z women are more likely to define success in terms of internal state than external achievement.
    Men
    • • Gen Z men rank 'having children' #1 as a marker of success (34%).
    • • Income, home ownership, and provider role remain central to male definitions of success.
    • • Gen Z men are more likely than Gen Z women to cite 'being respected' as a top life goal.
    • • The marriage and family premium has held — or grown — as a male success marker even as it has fallen for women.
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